Sam: There have been a lot of good times and bad times through out our relationship. Some break the wall and sometimes, it makes it stronger. Recently, I feel like to get in the door, I need to explain and plead. And I don't want to talk to her about this because it will cause a fight. That is why I am asking helping ont his specific subject now. I want her to just be able to open herself up to me more and let me help her stop the problem, if it can be stopped. And I both feel like it is affecting the group and my marriage. I don't want that. I want to have seperate lives between show and personal but right now, I can't for some reason and I need to know what I can do to break that. I am bringing the problems home with me and I think, deep down so is she. I try not to talk to her about it because I always tell myself, this time we have alone is for our relationship as a family, as parents and as husband and wife. It's time where we can be open with problems that may affect those parts of our lives. It's time where we can put work aside. Since September, that hasn't happened in a long time and now, I am wondering if moving here to try and do the show is just either bringing it back to that stage or, if it is past, behind us. To tell you the truth, in my eyes it isn't 100%. The only times I feel like we do have those problems is when our daughter is home and I already know by saying that, I would be in a fight with my wife. Hense, coming to you. I don't want to blame our daughter but that is all I can do because something tells me that when we are alone, nothing is wrong but it just feels worse when our daughter is home. And I don't want to feel that way. I want to be able to be 100% open all the time with our daughter or without her around.
Celine; Listen, I get where you are coming from. I am doing the same thing. I had twins, plus RC. But then I also had the scare with my husband about Cancer. That was the worst part of our marriage over all and it has made us stronger. He pushed me to go back to the stage and now, I have. Do I worry about him? Every night. Is that wrong? It is the complete opposite. It is normal, right and what you should be doing. If you aren't worried like this, then there is something wrong with your marriage. These things you are bringing up should be discussed between you are your wife because then you can share these concerns and you can know that she understands you and why you have so much on your mind. Right now, I can see you have both a heavy heart, a lot on your mind and a lot of stress. Times like this, you tell yourself, what can I do that will both help myself. Does that mean asking your wife to do things to help you? Yes, that is what you should do. If you love your wife, and I know you do, you have to trust her just as much as you love her and know that she will understand why you are asking for her help. Marriage needs co-operation. She has to be your best friend and the person you can trust to help you. You have done it before through your friends' death. What you should try and do is remember what you did back then and do it again to get all this off your chest and have less things in between you and your wife. Sam, you need to open up more because if not, you have a right to worry because someday, you will regret it.
Sam: Why exactly will I regret it?
Quinn: -Comes forward and then looks at her husband- Can I answer that Celine?
Sam:-Turns around to look at Quinn-
Quinn: -Smiles and then goes to sit with him-
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